
Intermittent Reinforcement: Why Unpredictable Kindness Keeps You Hooked
Unpredictable affection can make a harmful relationship difficult to leave. Recognize the pattern, assess meaningful change, and consider safer next steps.
Read guide →Todd Doyle is an author, publisher, and survivor of narcissistic abuse. He wrote Healing the Shattered: Surviving Narcissistic Abuse (2022) to help survivors understand harmful relationship patterns and begin rebuilding their lives. Through NarcLove, Todd shares survivor-informed perspectives on trauma bonds, love bombing, boundaries, and recovery. An Ohio native and father to one son, he writes from lived experience.

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